Vibes
People operate by vibes, and once you see this, everything makes sense. The content of your statement doesn't really matter – it's entirely how you say it. Remember this the next time nobody listens. Become the type of person people listen to, and they'll listen. Make a conscious effort to always speak more slowly and deliberately, and watch people fawn over you. Likewise, embracing all parts of yourself, even the bad parts, and moving forward with sheer dumb confidence will yield the same results.
It's like a cheat code.